Black Femmes Matter? Why is it so Hard to Care About Black Women?
It is more of an offense for Black women to talk about their pain than it is to inflict pain on Black women. Meg Thee Stallion is another disheartening example in a long history of neglect. This country does not…
The Pressure to Orgasm: What it is and How to Avoid it
The pressure to orgasm creates anxiety, discomfort and fear related to sex. And it impacts heterosexual women the most. It’s time to ask why? We need to unpack the pressure to orgasm and the orgasm gap because these numbers are…
Socially Distanced Intimacy: 🎵Let’s Talk About (Phone) Sex Baby🎵
Phone sex is a great way to explore a different form of intimacy, especially in these times of social distancing. Quarantine has been rough for many reasons and whether you’re boo’d up, just chattin’ or straight up entangled, sometimes you…
No is a Complete Sentence – Tips on Saying No More Often
Saying no can be one of the most difficult tasks to master. But, once you do, you’ll find that setting and sticking to your boundaries will benefit you and all your relationships. Storytime: The other day, I was talking to…
All About Love: Decolonize your heart With Lessons from Bell Hooks
We’re talking All About Love (haha) because it is quite literally one of my favorite topics. I love love. I love good, restorative, pure, healing love. Reading Bell Hook’s All About Love made me realize that our society really does…